Recently the Dalai Lama spoke about compassion and global leadership. He said good leaders today needed to be warm-hearted and practice open communication. With compassion, he believes we gain self-confidence and rid ourselves of our fears. “Then we can have honesty, then we can have trust.”
What does this mean for us in the work place?
If you look at the roots of the word compassion you begin to see how it can apply. It meant to suffer with! That has huge implications in the present economic climate doesn’t it? It means to feel another’s pain.
What a burden that could be if we lead a large organisation. Does that mean we have to feel the consequence of the every decision we make? Well yes, I believe we do! We need to be able to feel it and weigh it in the balance but it should not disable our ability to make hard decisions
A former colleague told me the following story.
“Some years ago I was invited to a funeral. The person who had died had worked at quite a junior level in my division in a UK government department. He had loved his job – his whole world had been centred on his work.
But he became ill. In his role that put the safety of others at risk. But there wasn’t any other work available for him to do! It was the time of an earlier round of UK Government cuts. So I made the decision we couldn’t keep him on
He was devastated. It is probably fair to say he lost the will to live.
I went to his funeral but it was one of the most difficult things I’ve ever done. I didn’t know what to expect! But his family were just delighted that a senior manager from the Department had come along.
Did I regret my decision? No! Was I pained by that decision? Yes, deeply! But then no one said being a senior manager or a leader was always going to be easy.”
The person who told me that story was a well loved, trusted and very effective leader.
Tenzin Gayatso could be the last Dalai Lama, but his message is timeless.
- Dalai Lama, LIVE (danflorin.wordpress.com)
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