Career Development: Monday Thought – Good Things Can Come With Pain
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Good Things Can Come With Pain – Like many other people, I spent a large part of my life working out how to avoid pain. I say “many” but I suspect that is true of most people.
One little known fact about me is that when I was well into my forties I took up weight training. I’m talking about serous weight training here, shading into body building with free weights. Over time I became quite fit and felt very strong. It gave me lots of confidence.
Later, my whole life changed and going to the gym was not a priority. I regret that I dropped out of training and have never gone back. But the experience did teach me a fundamental life lesson.
There are two kinds of pain. There is the kind that tells you something is wrong. And there is the kind you experience during positive change and growth.
Good things can come with pain – all change is accompanied by pain to some degree and so is much growth.
If you really want to achieve something in this life then it helps to learn the lesson about good pain.
You need to be prepared to go through your own personal pain barrier. But of course you also need to be able to distinguish “good” pain from that which tells you something is wrong.
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Wendy Smith is a career consultant, life coach and business coach with depth of experience in helping people lead happier lives and feel more fulfilled. She has worked in management as well as coaching and personal development, as well as starting up her own businesses. That means she is equally at home helping clients find a new career direction, starting-up a new business or dealing with life’s more challenging personal issues.
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