Asking For a Reference – Don’t be Diffident
Asking for a reference – let us take as read that employers expect to be asked to give a reference.
Don’t feel diffident about asking others who can vouch for your work or your character. People usually feel flattered to be asked.
Asking for a reference – act with discretion
Don’t give their names until they have agreed. Then let them know each time you mention them. Tell them a little about the vacancy and why you think you are a good fit. Make it easy for them to help you.
Don’t feel offended if they say no. Perhaps they just feel they don’t know you well enough.
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